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by kate 15. August 2011 23:26

I recently told a friend of mine that I still wrote letters.  As usual, he was shocked that I still did.

His first question was, "Why?"  He was surprised, confused, and curious. 


He likened the practice of writing and sending letters to collecting antiques.  I can see his point.  Writing letters involves spending time with something that is quaint, old-fashioned, out-of-favor, outdated; something that belongs to ancient times. 


In answer to his question, I decided to make a quick and unofficial list of all the reasons why I still write letters.  I'll keep thinking of reasons why I still write letters, I am sure.  For now, read this and see what you think.


I write letters because ...

 

- when you sit down to write, you don't know where you will end up ... you say things you never thought you would say, find an interesting turn of phrase, clarify your feelings, express yourself in surprising ways


- it is fun to surprise and delight people by mail


- it is a physical record of what you were thinking at a particular time in your life


- it is the only way to really say thank you in this day and age


- it is one way to slow down the pace of life, to be analogue in a digital world


- it is a kind of manual labor, literally


- I think of it as a kind of practice, as a kind of meditation


- my mother made me do it and still does


- by now, it is a habit


- of the (eternal) hope that someone will write me back ... (sigh)


- many of the people I most admire in the world wrote letters



AND YOU?


Do you write letters still?  Why do you write them?

Do you read them?  If so, why do you read them and who's do you read? 

Let me know in the comments below. 

Better yet: write me a letter!  I dare you.

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8/16/2011 1:07:31 PM #

Ellie

There is nothing like receiving a letter in the mail. The feel of it in your hands, the texture of the paper. The anticipation you feel right before you slide your finger in the unsealed space and tear it open(or the dread if you know who it's from and don't want to know). The more disciplined people I know will wait to use a letter opener. I never do unless it's a bill.

Aside from the content of the letter, I love to look at people's handwriting. I think this started early in school while comparing mine to others. But I still recognize the style of my early classmates writing when I see it. I've learned to almost be able to pin a persons age and socioeconomic status by the way they write.  You can definitely tell if the letter is written by an English person(wide and loopy letters) or a French person(stiffer with more ornate touches).

I always try to imagine them writing the letter. Where they were sitting etc. My favorite Aunt in the world was sitting in her chair New Years Day, across from her husband of 50+ years, writing her Christmas thank you notes, when her heart stopped. He didn't notice until he was ready for dinner. Now that's the way I want to go.

Ellie United States |

8/16/2011 10:59:21 PM #

Christine Liber

I'll never forget when we were working on the Canadian release of Telephone Game. We decided that the best way to get the attention of the media was for you to hand-write letters, introducing yourself and your new release. It seemed so refreshingly lo-fi. Those letters were truly epic! And the reaction was unreal - members of the media were so touched that an artist would take the time to send a hand-written letter. Completely unheard of.
So I'm with you - nothing beats a hand-written letter. Especially in this era of texting, Facebook and Twitter. Its a magical feeling to open the mail box, and discover a letter from a friend.

Christine Liber Canada |

8/17/2011 7:01:56 PM #

julian

this so rad! And i love your reasons for writing...there is something so beautiful about the kinesthetic movement of writing that can't be replicated anywhere else. It's as though it brings you into contact with your most natural gestures and is both an expression of what you wish to communicate, as well as a release of all that is unspoken. I'm so gonna write you a letter!
j

julian United States |

8/18/2011 5:42:00 AM #

Phill

When I was a US Marine-oversea and away oh so many years ago - I cherished every letter from family and loved ones.  Each letter received was two hole punched and spring clipped into a folder.  Not only did that help me keep continuity with the folks at home, but it allowed me to indulge myself by sitting on the couch with a whisky and stack of letters from a particular loved one anytime I chose.  I could read from the beginning letter all the way to the present and savor the experience whenever I needed a boost or a reason to reflect.

Unfortunately when I shipped back to the US, those letters never made it back with me.  That was over 25 years ago.  I can close my eyes and still see my box of manilla folders - each with a two hole spring clip neatly stacked with stationary.  Each one was a time capsule of love.  Wow - I wish I had them now.

Now happily married to a nice girl from Montreal and living in my hometown of Memphis.  Love your music.  Smile

Phill United States |

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